Anyone who has read any of my blogs will notice that many years have past since my last one and boy have there been some changes.
Back then i was basically a sex worker who enjoyed her job and made enough to get by on but things were always going to change. I was quite submissive in my life sexually and was, and i still am essentially a lesbian who is able to also enjoy sex with guys, after one or two amazing relationships with gorgeous females who were young enough to be my daughters (though obviously well over the age of consent, averaging 19-23) i met a guy who was having a relationship with a 30 year old female and we all got extremely friendly, well one thing led to another and we all agreed to move in together. He was heavily into the human pony and puppy scene and i became his human ponygirl, if you’ve never heard of Ponygirls it essentially means i dressed in fetish pony equipment, all nice shiny leather, buckles and bells, complete with a bit between my teeth and i pull a pony-cart around a field/woodland area or sometimes indoors, driven by whoever’s in charge, its bloody hard work but a great deal of fun, my Ponygirl name was Rainbow Dash. He also printed fetish literature and sold adult school clothing and convinced me there was more money to be made being a Dominatrix than by escorting, although at that stage i wasn’t entirely sure i could or would want to do it the idea intrigued me, I’d also had one or two bad experiences with escorting where i was essentially raped by clients, whatever anyone tells you there is little point in going to the Police because they don’t really want to know, as far as they’re concerned if your going to shag a guy for money then you take that chance. So i set about building myself a self contained dungeon with all the artistic flair i could muster, it had dark grey walls with red flames shooting up from the floor, suspension points in the ceiling and anchor points in the floor, a red elasticated spiders web, attached to one wall, a full length buttoned red leather bed, with anchor points at each end, a cage, back leather ceiling, with red leather buttons and Medieval style wall lights, all very moody and quite sexy. I then set about buying a collection of fetish clothing and equipment. I purchased a red latex catsuit with zips on the ankles and wrists, a police women’s uniform which was genuine and complete, including armoured jacket and hat, i purchased several leather skirts which i teamed with crisp white blouses with a bustier over the top and i also bought several pairs of boots of varied styles. I had a nice collection of crops, paddles,canes, floggers ect and many types of shackles, its amazing just how much equipment is required in order to set up a dungeon properly, all i hoped is i would up to the job and be able to enjoy it because i knew its something i could not do if i wasn’t able to get pleasure from it, as it turned out all my worries were completely unfounded, but more on that at a later stage.
The next important thing for me was having a really good Mistress name, something that people would remember, along the lines of Miss Whiplash and i wanted something nobody else was using and then out of the blue i thought of a great name but i was convinced it would already be in use but it turned out there wasn’t another one, so my name became Mistress Cathy Cane. I had a website built, name cards made and my dungeon all fully built and equipped, all i needed now was clients…………. More on the continuing story in my next blog.
So Sexie Sophie was now Mistress Cathy Cane. xx
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